Trying too hard is... well, trying too hard! Besides, persistence can achieve what volume can't, sometimes. "I will assume those things that you think I am involve charming lovely ladies, in which case, yes! I am specifically attempting to charm a lovely lady. It's harder than most things I do, I have to admit. Though I suppose I'd know if I failed if you ran off to say hello to the casters." Although most things he tried to keep the attention of usually elected to do that with their fists or weapons...